Last weekend I happened across one of those tv shows on organization. I was intrigued. I am always looking for tips to better organize my life; so I thought, why not? I confess this particular show merely stressed me out. In fairness there were good tips but I couldn’t get past the basic disaster of the house. More than anything it made me think of my Mom. I know there is the old saying that as you grow up you become your parent. In this case, I think I’m proud of that. My Mom had a beautiful home always perfectly maintained, her own business that she impeccably ran, as well as filling the role of mother and wife of fifty plus years. In the days where women are supposed to have it all and do it all, she did and made it seem effortless. It’s made me ask the question of how did she do it all? It’s not like she was exhausted or gave up her own life. She did do it all. So how? I think the secret is in the rules she imposed as I grew up. So Mom’s rules –
- Make your bed when you get out of it in the morning. It only takes a second and it is done for the day.
- Where is the item’s home? It is easier to put [name whatever it is – laundry, dishes, books, paper] it in its proper place the first time rather than moving it multiple times. Another variation on this rule is where does it live? Everything should have its proper place and be put in it before you go to bed at night.
- Hang up your towels.
- Dirty laundry in the hamper.
- Hang up your clothes when you take them off.
- Fold the laundry as you take it out of the dryer. It has less wrinkles that way. For those things that you only partially dry, alter this rule to fold the laundry when dry.
- Leave the room straight when you are finished for the day. That means everything back where it came from with dishes in the dishwasher, blankets folded and put away, remotes in their proper place.
- Deal with mail when you take it out of the mailbox.
- Have a clean sink when you go up to bed or no dirty dishes in the sink.
- If it does not fit or you never wear it, donate it to someone who can use it.
These are the rules Mom imposed on our daily life. It worked for her and it seems to work for me. Are there rules that you live by that permit you to organize your life?